"When you love a functional alcoholic" William f Kraft

"Stop enabling, detach with live, and continue to keep appropriate boundaries"

Make new friends but keep the old

     I am reminded of a time 15 years ago, when I lay crying in my bed feeling like I just did not have gilfriends.  I remember praying out to my God, why won't you bring me friends into my life, real golden girl friends...

     Sometimes we do not see the seeds that have been sown until the harvest is cut.  This is how a I feel about my life and my friendships.  I feel amazingly honored and blessed for all the friendships that have crossed my path in my adult years. They have all been because of the time they needed to be and just the right people were put there.  There are too many to count, to mention, they are like an ever flowing fountain refreshing my soul.  

    It's funny to me when sometimes someone remembers something I the past and fears that it might have disrupted our friendship. No guess one of the blessings to my memory is I forget all the bad and only remember the good, call it grace, call it whatever. 

    If I left this life now, I would miss my family because ya know they are family.  But I would miss my friends because I would not be the person I am today if it had not been for them.  Thank you to each and every one of you- you are the rainbows in my heart.